Sex, Everybody likes sex. Everybody wants sex. What value could one possibly get from sex? Love? Intimacy? or pleasure?
I can't really read your mind, you know. But i know some would think sex is not the only thing that can make you happy. What is it with sex anyway that everybody seems it should be a must for every couple? Well, for them maybe it is. But for me, it's not.
I had a partner once. And every time we go to bed, i get irritated when he urges me to have sex with him. Although it's great to have sex, i really don't get to see why someone would go for a lot of trouble just for it to happen. And i was growing tired of it. So, i have learned to understand and let go. He was damn happy about it, too.
What i like for a partner is that he understands the words "yes" and "no", the words "like" and "want", and the words "lust" from "love."
What i want for a partner is that, he's happy lying in bed with me; no sex, no fights, and no whatsoever. Just me and him, talking about love, life, and kisses.
I know what you think, it's boring. But it's my own way of showing you that it's simple living.